By Sandra Del Sesto, M.Ed., ACPS

No one is sure who said it, but we have heard the saying, “Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life.” During the month of Valentine’s Day, we can challenge ourselves to reflect on the connection between the work we do as prevention professionals and love. The saying holds a potent message about the connection between loving what we do and fulfillment. It suggests that, when we engage in work that aligns with our true passions and interests, it ceases to feel like work but rather becomes a source of joy and accomplishment. Our love for what we do can drive us to push beyond our perceived limitations, explore new ideas, and create something meaningful, all while enjoying the process.

However, that doesn’t mean that all of our workdays are full of sunshine and roses. Pursuing our passions and doing what we love requires reflection, self-awareness, determination, patience, and even risk taking. Factors outside of our control such as societal expectations, financial constraints, or personal circumstances can sometimes hinder our ability to prioritize our passions. Nevertheless, it is crucial that we recognize the importance of making time and finding ways to integrate our passion into our lives.      

While the saying suggests that doing what we love eliminates the feeling of “work,” it is critical that we find a work-life balance and are realistic about our own goals and expectations.  It is possible to pursue our passions while acknowledging that challenges and moments of effort and frustration will still arise. The difference lies in our approach towards those challenges, seeing obstacles as opportunities for growth and learning and to be willing to stretch beyond the conventional. This perspective allows us to persevere and find joy in the journey, even when faced with difficulties.

Those of us who work in prevention are here and stay here not for recognition. The Chinese philosopher, Lao Tze said centuries ago, “The mark of the best leaders is when the work is done and the task completed, the people say, ‘We have done this ourselves” … and forget we had any part in it! Nor is our primary goal financial gain. We do what we do because we want our communities and the people in them to be well and live well. It is a noble and important work.

So, keep at it; remember why you do this work; and this year celebrate yourselves as the loving, caring, and passionate people you are. Happy Valentine’s Day and thank you for all you do!